🔥 How Can I Stay Confident When I’m Not Doing Great?

Carissa — phenomenal question. And honestly, this is where 90% of players get stuck. Most people think confidence comes after good results. “I’m winning, so now I feel confident.” But that’s not confidence — that’s just comfort. Real confidence is what you bring into the match, not what you get from it. So if you’re playing bad and suddenly feel like you’ve “lost” your confidence, that means it wasn’t real to begin with. True confidence is never determined by the score. It’s determined by your choice to keep showing up, right now, no matter what’s happening. That’s what makes you a force.

đź’Ş Confidence is a Decision, Not a Reward

Here’s the shift: confidence isn’t a result of performance — it’s a way of being. You decide to be confident by choosing to stay grounded, alert, and fully engaged, especially when things aren’t going your way. When you’re down in a match and you still lean in, still stand your ground, still compete like your heart’s on fire — that’s confidence. That’s when you build your identity as a competitor. Confidence doesn’t mean you win every point. It means you bring your full self to every point. And when you start depending on that — on your presence instead of the outcome — your whole game changes.

🎯 Want to Make This Mental Skill Automatic?

You’re already doing the most important thing by asking this question. But now it’s time to make that confidence real — and permanent. Inside the CP Portal, this is exactly what we train. Confidence is the very first mental skill in our Blueprint, and it sets the tone for everything else. If you want deeper support building unshakable presence — even when you’re losing — schedule a call with Senior CP Coach Tim Mattek. We’ll help you lock in the mindset that wins from the inside out. Game on.
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Complete Performance Tennis has worked with over 1,000 athletes globally this year in the areas of mental skills and performance. The coaches here have 60+ collective years of full-time involvement in athletics as players, trainers, mentors, and coaches. As a father and two brothers of Olympic Gold Medalist and 10x Grand Slam Champion Bethanie Mattek-Sands, the CP Team has been intimately involved with performance at the highest levels. And continue to work with WTA, ATP, ITF, D-1, and nationally-ranked juniors world-wide.  
Complete Performance was built for the real ones—the true competitors, the big dreamers, the athletes chasing more than just wins. It’s for those ready to move past frustration, unlock their power, and live in their zone—permanently. The CP Portal isn’t just a library of tools—it’s a performance ecosystem, crafted to equip players with the mindset, method, and momentum to rise. Every tool, every session, every step is designed to help athletes express their genius in real time, under real pressure. Thousands have already stepped in. The question is—are you ready to own your peak?
“Everything we've learned is contained in The CP Blueprint. I want to personally invite you to see what The Blueprint can do for you in just 8 weeks. As a father of four athletes, and a coach of 1000’s over the years, I understand how important it is to invest in our youth and set them up for success. An investment in the Blueprint, is an investment in an unshakeable foundation of inner balance and personal empowerment.

Here at CP, we’ve dedicated our lives and poured our passion into building a process that works. We take personal responsibility for the success of any and every athlete that teams up with us.

Your next step is to schedule your Interview Call with me to ensure this program is a good fit for everyone involved. We take the time to cultivate a community of like-minded players, parents, and coaches."

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